McGill Tribune

This year, especially in Quebec, “autonomy” seems to be a hot topic word. The idea that people have a right to make their own choices is a common argument, especially for anyone who takes a pro-choice stance. But these words, “autonomy” and “choice,” are somewhat misleading when used outside of the context of a real situation. When a woman faces a crisis pregnancy, for example, how much of a choice does she really have? When facing the financial realities of motherhood, abortion may seem like the only possible route. In this situation, does it count as a choice if there is seemingly only one viable option?

No woman should ever feel as if she is being forced into an abortion, whether it’s because of a lack of resources or an absence of emotional support. The difficulties of an unplanned pregnancy are immense, but they need not be insurmountable. Women should be able to embrace their womanhood and their motherhood, without also dealing with debt or poverty as a consequence. As Margaret Colin, honorary co-chair of Feminists for Life, eloquently put it, we need to fight “for the rights of pregnant women—for society to change to accept them, not for them to change to be accepted by society.” The financial difficulties, the time commitment of motherhood, and the pressures often added by close family and friends, should never coerce a woman into abortion. Young mothers should feel loved and supported, and should know that their child will feel the same love and support.

Imagine yourself dealing with an unplanned pregnancy, finding yourself thrust into the role of mother or father. How are you going to support your child? Where will you find the money for the endless supply of diapers, baby wipes, bottles, and clothing? How will you find the time to care for your child? Will you be able to continue your education? These kinds of stresses are what push women towards abortion every day. But despite these pressures, there is a light in the darkness. For those who are brave enough to challenge these problems, there are crisis pregnancy centres that provide both financial and emotional support to mothers in need. They provide women with the necessities that allow them to follow through with their pregnancies and their role as a mother. This week, Choose Life is running a diaper drive to support the pregnancy centres that provide this service. These centres are in need of diapers, baby toys, and cradles. We invite you to bring in these supplies, or to make a monetary donation towards the cause. There will be a table set up at the  Y-intersection, and collection bins in many buildings on campus. Join us in making sure mothers have the support they need.

Catherine Leurer is Choose Life VP-Internal, and can be reached at [email protected].